{"id":78010,"date":"2023-07-17T06:03:06","date_gmt":"2023-07-17T11:03:06","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/joanpa.com\/2023\/07\/que-importancia-tiene-esa-chispa-a-la-hora-de-elegir-pareja-la-respuesta-puede-sorprenderte\/"},"modified":"2023-07-17T06:03:06","modified_gmt":"2023-07-17T11:03:06","slug":"que-importancia-tiene-esa-chispa-a-la-hora-de-elegir-pareja-la-respuesta-puede-sorprenderte","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/joanpa.com\/?p=78010","title":{"rendered":"\u00bfQu\u00e9 importancia tiene esa chispa a la hora de elegir pareja?  La respuesta puede sorprenderte"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><\/p>\n<div data-editable=\"content\" itemprop=\"articleBody\" data-reorderable=\"content\">\n<p data-uri=\"archive.cms.cnn.com\/_components\/editor-note\/instances\/editor-note-1c59fa20db91a2824d2bc2ab5b93212f@published\" data-editable=\"text\" data-component-name=\"editor-note\" class=\"editor-note inline-placeholder\">\n  <b>Nota del editor: <\/b><em>Ian Kerner<\/em><em>  es terapeuta matrimonial y familiar licenciada, escritora y colaboradora sobre el tema de las relaciones para CNN.  Su libro m\u00e1s reciente es una gu\u00eda para parejas, \u201cAs\u00ed que cu\u00e9ntame sobre la \u00faltima vez que tuviste sexo\u201d.<\/em>\n<\/p>\n<p>\n    <cite class=\"source__cite\"><br \/>\n      <span class=\"source__location\" data-editable=\"location\"\/><br \/>\n      <span class=\"source__text\" data-editable=\"source\">CNN<\/span><br \/>\n         \u2014<br \/>\n    <\/cite>\n<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph inline-placeholder\" data-uri=\"archive.cms.cnn.com\/_components\/paragraph\/instances\/paragraph_8B2D1EC9-F7D9-6F47-0B9E-53F7A4ACC822@published\" data-editable=\"text\" data-component-name=\"paragraph\">\n<p>      Muchos clientes masculinos heterosexuales vienen a mi pr\u00e1ctica admitiendo que eligieron a su pareja sin considerar la atracci\u00f3n sexual.\n  <\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph inline-placeholder\" data-uri=\"archive.cms.cnn.com\/_components\/paragraph\/instances\/paragraph_45471851-DF2A-7B6B-6DEC-546AE7050FE7@published\" data-editable=\"text\" data-component-name=\"paragraph\">\n<p>      Durante las sesiones de terapia de pareja con su pareja en la habitaci\u00f3n, el hombre afirmar\u00e1 que no sabe por qu\u00e9 no siente deseo.  Tal vez sea estr\u00e9s, niveles bajos de testosterona o ansiedad.\n  <\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph inline-placeholder\" data-uri=\"archive.cms.cnn.com\/_components\/paragraph\/instances\/paragraph_4B0A6907-4BA2-F442-7A37-546AE706E1D6@published\" data-editable=\"text\" data-component-name=\"paragraph\">\n<p>      Pero cuando me re\u00fano con \u00e9l individualmente, a menudo cuenta una historia diferente.  Me dice que eligi\u00f3 a su pareja sin priorizar la atracci\u00f3n sexual.\n  <\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph inline-placeholder\" data-uri=\"archive.cms.cnn.com\/_components\/paragraph\/instances\/paragraph_FE19F447-74D3-33CB-7D80-546AE707580C@published\" data-editable=\"text\" data-component-name=\"paragraph\">\n<p>      \u00bfPor qu\u00e9 una persona elegir\u00eda una posible pareja de por vida sin sentir la chispa de la atracci\u00f3n sexual?  \u00bfY pueden estas relaciones sobrevivir y prosperar?  \u00bfSe puede cultivar despu\u00e9s algo como la atracci\u00f3n sexual que no exist\u00eda en un principio?\n  <\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph inline-placeholder\" data-uri=\"archive.cms.cnn.com\/_components\/paragraph\/instances\/paragraph_77D77C5C-7968-1F24-2694-546AE708A449@published\" data-editable=\"text\" data-component-name=\"paragraph\">\n<p>      He hablado con muchos hombres de 30 a\u00f1os que me han dicho: \u201cCuando encontr\u00e9 a la mujer con la que quer\u00eda casarme, marc\u00f3 todas las casillas.  Excepto uno.\u00bb\n  <\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph inline-placeholder\" data-uri=\"archive.cms.cnn.com\/_components\/paragraph\/instances\/paragraph_C57BF3C2-DBE0-44F7-55FD-546AE709F43C@published\" data-editable=\"text\" data-component-name=\"paragraph\">\n<p>      Las caracter\u00edsticas en esa lista incluyen \u00abser mi mejor amiga\u00bb, \u00abser\u00e1 una madre incre\u00edble\u00bb, \u00abnuestros amigos y familiares se llevan muy bien\u00bb y \u00abella realmente me ama\u00bb.  \u00bfLa \u00fanica casilla que no se marc\u00f3?  Atracci\u00f3n sexual y, a menudo, los hombres ni siquiera mencionaron esa cualidad para comenzar.\n  <\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph inline-placeholder\" data-uri=\"archive.cms.cnn.com\/_components\/paragraph\/instances\/paragraph_7885A802-B3C8-11F4-42C5-546AE70A12A8@published\" data-editable=\"text\" data-component-name=\"paragraph\">\n<p>      Estaba aturdido.\n  <\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph inline-placeholder\" data-uri=\"archive.cms.cnn.com\/_components\/paragraph\/instances\/paragraph_30AE5716-0B17-5A4F-ECD1-546AE70A84FE@published\" data-editable=\"text\" data-component-name=\"paragraph\">\n<p>      La sexualidad es lo \u00fanico que realmente distingue una relaci\u00f3n rom\u00e1ntica de una plat\u00f3nica: encuentro que es un tipo de \u00abpegamento de relaci\u00f3n\u00bb que ayuda a las parejas a permanecer juntas en tiempos dif\u00edciles.  Por eso me sorprende que tantas personas deval\u00faen el sexo al elegir una pareja para una relaci\u00f3n a largo plazo.\n  <\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph inline-placeholder\" data-uri=\"archive.cms.cnn.com\/_components\/paragraph\/instances\/paragraph_18F3EDA0-0EF5-B8D6-3330-546AE70B858A@published\" data-editable=\"text\" data-component-name=\"paragraph\">\n<p>      \u00abLa investigaci\u00f3n muestra que, si bien el atractivo f\u00edsico suele estar entre los rasgos m\u00e1s importantes que las personas desean en una pareja rom\u00e1ntica, en realidad no encabeza la lista para hombres o mujeres\u00bb, dijo el Dr. Justin Lehmiller, investigador del Instituto Kinsey en Universidad de Indiana, un centro de investigaci\u00f3n dedicado a la sexualidad.  \u201cRasgos como la inteligencia, el humor, la honestidad y la amabilidad suelen ser al menos tan importantes, si no m\u00e1s\u201d.\n  <\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph inline-placeholder\" data-uri=\"archive.cms.cnn.com\/_components\/paragraph\/instances\/paragraph_4C9A9B08-2A43-5ADF-0260-546AE70C2A69@published\" data-editable=\"text\" data-component-name=\"paragraph\">\n<p>      Seg\u00fan la Dra. Elizabeth Perri, terapeuta sexual con sede en Chicago, algunos hombres han internalizado una visi\u00f3n de \u00abo esto o lo otro\u00bb de las mujeres: aquellos que son excelentes esposas y madres y aquellos que son sexualmente aventureros.\n  <\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph inline-placeholder\" data-uri=\"archive.cms.cnn.com\/_components\/paragraph\/instances\/paragraph_E409F125-1437-5695-1D77-546AE70CE0C0@published\" data-editable=\"text\" data-component-name=\"paragraph\">\n<p>      \u201cHe observado esto en pacientes masculinos que est\u00e1n en el mundo de las citas y sienten la presi\u00f3n de elegir a alguien a quien perciben como &#8216;material de esposa&#8217; pero sin atracci\u00f3n sexual, en lugar de esperar a encontrar una pareja que encaje mejor emocionalmente. y sexualmente\u201d, me dijo Perri.\n  <\/p>\n<div data-uri=\"archive.cms.cnn.com\/_components\/video-resource\/instances\/h_a66843ba9c24157e16386951d814ae91-h_09a1d6b836a67950ef75f8c76ceeb366-paragraph_80A4E579-5F85-419F-DB77-5841C770AA11@published\" data-component-name=\"video-resource\" data-editable=\"settings\" class=\"video-resource\" data-video-id=\"health\/2014\/07\/30\/oxytocin-orig-cfb.cnn\" data-live=\"\" data-analytics-aggregate-events=\"true\" data-custom-experience=\"\" data-asset-type=\"\" data-medium-env=\"prod\" data-autostart=\"false\" data-show-ads=\"true\" data-source=\"CNN\" data-featured-video=\"true\" data-headline=\"This is what you need to fall in love (2014)\" data-description=\"Hugs, eye contact and of course, sex. Paul Zak breaks down the &quot;love molecule&quot; with Rachel Crane.\" data-duration=\"01:55\" data-source-html=\"&lt;span class=&quot;video-resource__source&quot;&gt; - Source:&#10;                &lt;a href=&quot;https:\/\/www.cnn.com\/&quot; class=&quot;video-resource__source-url&quot;&gt;CNN&lt;\/a&gt;&#10;    &lt;\/span&gt;\" data-fave-thumbnails=\"&quot;big&quot;:  &quot;uri&quot;: &quot;https:\/\/media.cnn.com\/api\/v1\/images\/stellar\/prod\/140730183838-oxytocin-thumb-1-cfb.png?c=16x9&amp;q=h_540,w_960,c_fill&quot; , &quot;small&quot;:  &quot;uri&quot;: &quot;https:\/\/media.cnn.com\/api\/v1\/images\/stellar\/prod\/140730183838-oxytocin-thumb-1-cfb.png?c=16x9&amp;q=h_540,w_960,c_fill&quot;   \" data-vr-video=\"\" data-show-html=\"&lt;!-- unable to render partial show without a supplied context --&gt;\" data-check-event-based-preview=\"\" data-network-id=\"\" data-details=\"\">\n<div id=\"player-archive.cms.cnn.com\/_components\/video-resource\/instances\/h_a66843ba9c24157e16386951d814ae91-h_09a1d6b836a67950ef75f8c76ceeb366-paragraph_80A4E579-5F85-419F-DB77-5841C770AA11@published\" class=\"video-resource__wrapper\">\n<div class=\"video-resource__image\">\n<div data-uri=\"archive.cms.cnn.com\/_components\/image\/instances\/thumbnail-image-6de5b7449232617005b6ba9fd242bd72@published\" class=\"image image__hide-placeholder\" data-image-variation=\"image\" data-name=\"oxytocin thumb 1 cfb\" data-component-name=\"image\" data-observe-resizes=\"\" data-breakpoints=\"{\" image--eq-extra-small=\"\" data-original-ratio=\"0.5625\" data-original-height=\"1080\" data-original-width=\"1920\" data-url=\"https:\/\/media.cnn.com\/api\/v1\/images\/stellar\/prod\/140730183838-oxytocin-thumb-1-cfb.png?c=original\" data-unselectable=\"true\">\n<div class=\"image__container \" data-image-variation=\"image\" data-breakpoints=\"{\" image--eq-extra-small=\"\">\n       <picture class=\"image__picture\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/media.cnn.com\/api\/v1\/images\/stellar\/prod\/140730183838-oxytocin-thumb-1-cfb.png?c=16x9&amp;q=w_850,c_fill\" alt=\"oxitocina pulgar 1 cfb\" class=\"image__dam-img image__dam-img--loading\" onload=\"this.classList.remove('image__dam-img--loading')\" onerror=\"imageLoadError(this)\" height=\"1080\" width=\"1920\"\/><\/picture>\n    <\/div>\n<\/div><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<div class=\"video-resource__details\">\n<p>Esto es lo que necesitas para enamorarte (2014)<\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<p class=\"paragraph inline-placeholder\" data-uri=\"archive.cms.cnn.com\/_components\/paragraph\/instances\/paragraph_C334253D-4385-83C6-1854-546AE70E8979@published\" data-editable=\"text\" data-component-name=\"paragraph\">\n<p>      El buen sexo puede ayudar a proteger contra la angustia psicol\u00f3gica, incluida la ansiedad y la depresi\u00f3n, ayuda a las parejas a lograr una conexi\u00f3n m\u00e1s profunda y mejora la satisfacci\u00f3n de la relaci\u00f3n.\n  <\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph inline-placeholder\" data-uri=\"archive.cms.cnn.com\/_components\/paragraph\/instances\/paragraph_E289EBE7-48CB-EE90-3E92-546AE70E29F9@published\" data-editable=\"text\" data-component-name=\"paragraph\">\n<p>      \u201cSi una relaci\u00f3n es una comida, la parte sexual debe considerarse una parte integral de ella, como la prote\u00edna, en lugar de una parte fr\u00edvola como el postre\u201d, dice Eva Dillon, terapeuta sexual con sede en la ciudad de Nueva York.\n  <\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph inline-placeholder\" data-uri=\"archive.cms.cnn.com\/_components\/paragraph\/instances\/paragraph_80C393FE-8CFD-9997-8444-546AE710A4EC@published\" data-editable=\"text\" data-component-name=\"paragraph\">\n<p>      \u201cSeg\u00fan mi experiencia, es posible que las mujeres cultiven el deseo por una pareja con un esfuerzo considerable, pero si un hombre no tiene deseo por su pareja al comienzo de una relaci\u00f3n, nunca la desear\u00e1\u201d, me dijo Dillon.  \u00bfPor qu\u00e9 contar con la atracci\u00f3n sexual m\u00e1s tarde cuando puedes priorizarla en una pareja y disfrutar de los beneficios desde el principio?\n  <\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph inline-placeholder\" data-uri=\"archive.cms.cnn.com\/_components\/paragraph\/instances\/paragraph_FF7896F4-67B4-2F4B-DA2A-546AE7114D65@published\" data-editable=\"text\" data-component-name=\"paragraph\">\n<p>      A\u00fan as\u00ed, los niveles m\u00e1s bajos de atracci\u00f3n sexual no siempre son un problema para las parejas, dijo la sex\u00f3loga Dra. Yvonne Fulbright.\n  <\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph inline-placeholder\" data-uri=\"archive.cms.cnn.com\/_components\/paragraph\/instances\/paragraph_56AB609B-3E51-8C81-1189-546AE7114852@published\" data-editable=\"text\" data-component-name=\"paragraph\">\n<p>      \u201cPara algunas personas, la falta de atracci\u00f3n sexual puede conducir a la infidelidad o al divorcio.  Para otros, la falta de atracci\u00f3n sexual solo se convierte en un problema cuando uno se sintoniza con las expectativas sociales en torno al sexo y el deseo\u201d, dijo Fulbright, quien es profesor adjunto en el departamento de sociolog\u00eda de la Universidad Americana en Washington, DC.\n  <\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph inline-placeholder\" data-uri=\"archive.cms.cnn.com\/_components\/paragraph\/instances\/paragraph_7FCF0505-51E2-B53A-67DB-546AE7121DF6@published\" data-editable=\"text\" data-component-name=\"paragraph\">\n<p>      \u201cSe est\u00e1 ejerciendo mucha presi\u00f3n sobre las parejas para que mantengan una vida sexual activa y atractiva.  La gente tiene la sensaci\u00f3n de que hay un tipo y una calidad de deseo que debe lograrse, con cualquier desinter\u00e9s en un problema tan considerado que debe resolverse\u201d.\n  <\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph inline-placeholder\" data-uri=\"archive.cms.cnn.com\/_components\/paragraph\/instances\/paragraph_48F47B14-2D4F-6354-0398-546AE713ACA2@published\" data-editable=\"text\" data-component-name=\"paragraph\">\n<p>      Algunos de mis colegas terapeutas advierten que no se debe poner demasiado \u00e9nfasis en la importancia de la atracci\u00f3n sexual inmediata.\n  <\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph inline-placeholder\" data-uri=\"archive.cms.cnn.com\/_components\/paragraph\/instances\/paragraph_9D1E4CF0-067B-7400-C448-547BD11B9683@published\" data-editable=\"text\" data-component-name=\"paragraph\">\n<p>      \u201cTenemos la idea err\u00f3nea de que debemos sentirnos atra\u00eddos f\u00edsicamente por alguien cuando nos conocemos por primera vez o no hay potencial de relaci\u00f3n.  Eso simplemente no es cierto\u201d, dijo la terapeuta sexual Dra. Rachel Needle.  \u201cLa atracci\u00f3n puede crecer a medida que conoces a alguien y experimentas una mayor cercan\u00eda y conexi\u00f3n\u201d.\n  <\/p>\n<div data-uri=\"archive.cms.cnn.com\/_components\/video-resource\/instances\/h_aae2e00b1ca0e971e7e91b01609ad99c-h_09a1d6b836a67950ef75f8c76ceeb366-paragraph_71C099F8-2A84-E993-B53B-58412207C28C@published\" data-component-name=\"video-resource\" data-editable=\"settings\" class=\"video-resource\" data-video-id=\"health\/2019\/04\/05\/better-way-for-couples-to-argue-staying-well.cnn\" data-live=\"\" data-analytics-aggregate-events=\"true\" data-custom-experience=\"\" data-asset-type=\"\" data-medium-env=\"prod\" data-autostart=\"false\" data-show-ads=\"true\" data-source=\"CNN\" data-featured-video=\"true\" data-headline=\"The better way for couples to argue (2019)\" data-description=\"Therapists say couples need to work out their conflicts, but there's a right and wrong way to argue in a relationship. \" data-duration=\"01:29\" data-source-html=\"&lt;span class=&quot;video-resource__source&quot;&gt; - Source:&#10;                &lt;a href=&quot;https:\/\/www.cnn.com\/&quot; class=&quot;video-resource__source-url&quot;&gt;CNN&lt;\/a&gt;&#10;    &lt;\/span&gt;\" data-fave-thumbnails=\"&quot;big&quot;:  &quot;uri&quot;: &quot;https:\/\/media.cnn.com\/api\/v1\/images\/stellar\/prod\/190405110203-better-way-for-couples-to-argue-staying-well-00000411.jpg?q=x_0,y_0,h_1080,w_1919,c_fill\/h_540,w_960&quot; , &quot;small&quot;:  &quot;uri&quot;: &quot;https:\/\/media.cnn.com\/api\/v1\/images\/stellar\/prod\/190405110203-better-way-for-couples-to-argue-staying-well-00000411.jpg?q=x_0,y_0,h_1080,w_1919,c_fill\/h_540,w_960&quot;   \" data-vr-video=\"\" data-show-html=\"&lt;!-- unable to render partial show without a supplied context --&gt;\" data-check-event-based-preview=\"\" data-network-id=\"\" data-details=\"\">\n<div id=\"player-archive.cms.cnn.com\/_components\/video-resource\/instances\/h_aae2e00b1ca0e971e7e91b01609ad99c-h_09a1d6b836a67950ef75f8c76ceeb366-paragraph_71C099F8-2A84-E993-B53B-58412207C28C@published\" class=\"video-resource__wrapper\">\n<div class=\"video-resource__image\">\n<div data-uri=\"archive.cms.cnn.com\/_components\/image\/instances\/thumbnail-image-69c75c56cf03175afedc64ad98f00fcb@published\" class=\"image image__hide-placeholder\" data-image-variation=\"image\" data-name=\"Better way for couples to argue Staying Well _00000411\" data-component-name=\"image\" data-observe-resizes=\"\" data-breakpoints=\"{\" image--eq-extra-small=\"\" data-original-ratio=\"0.5625\" data-original-height=\"1080\" data-original-width=\"1920\" data-url=\"https:\/\/media.cnn.com\/api\/v1\/images\/stellar\/prod\/190405110203-better-way-for-couples-to-argue-staying-well-00000411.jpg?q=w_1920,h_1080,x_0,y_0,c_fill\" data-unselectable=\"true\">\n<div class=\"image__container \" data-image-variation=\"image\" data-breakpoints=\"{\" image--eq-extra-small=\"\">\n       <picture class=\"image__picture\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/media.cnn.com\/api\/v1\/images\/stellar\/prod\/190405110203-better-way-for-couples-to-argue-staying-well-00000411.jpg?q=x_0,y_0,h_1080,w_1919,c_fill\/w_850\" alt=\"Mejor manera de discutir entre parejas Staying Well _00000411.jpg\" class=\"image__dam-img image__dam-img--loading\" onload=\"this.classList.remove('image__dam-img--loading')\" onerror=\"imageLoadError(this)\" height=\"1080\" width=\"1920\"\/><\/picture>\n    <\/div>\n<\/div><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<div class=\"video-resource__details\">\n<p>La mejor manera de discutir en pareja (2019)<\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<p class=\"paragraph inline-placeholder\" data-uri=\"archive.cms.cnn.com\/_components\/paragraph\/instances\/paragraph_E68B1D24-0313-A941-92B7-546AE715B6B1@published\" data-editable=\"text\" data-component-name=\"paragraph\">\n<p>      \u00bfQu\u00e9 debe hacer si usted y su pareja se est\u00e1n quedando sin fuerza sexual?  \u00bfO si quieres aumentar la temperatura de una relaci\u00f3n que no ten\u00eda nada al principio?\n  <\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph inline-placeholder\" data-uri=\"archive.cms.cnn.com\/_components\/paragraph\/instances\/paragraph_8A1C99CC-50B6-3262-0F24-546AE715008E@published\" data-editable=\"text\" data-component-name=\"paragraph\">\n<p>      Fulbright advirti\u00f3 contra dar cualquier consejo radical.  \u201cSolo los socios pueden descubrir la mejor manera de manejar este desaf\u00edo en su relaci\u00f3n\u201d, dijo.\n  <\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph inline-placeholder\" data-uri=\"archive.cms.cnn.com\/_components\/paragraph\/instances\/paragraph_2F3AFEBC-0FB1-9682-00D6-546AE717282E@published\" data-editable=\"text\" data-component-name=\"paragraph\">\n<p>      \u201cLa no monogamia puede funcionar para algunos, pero no para otros.  Las parejas deben decidir qu\u00e9 tan honestos deben ser el uno con el otro, qu\u00e9 tanto este asunto es un factor decisivo para permanecer juntos o no, y cu\u00e1nto peso se le debe dar a este tema a la luz de otras cosas buenas que tienen a su favor\u201d, agreg\u00f3. v\u00eda correo electr\u00f3nico.\n  <\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph inline-placeholder\" data-uri=\"archive.cms.cnn.com\/_components\/paragraph\/instances\/paragraph_B93101EF-21FF-D500-0B4B-546AE71792A8@published\" data-editable=\"text\" data-component-name=\"paragraph\">\n<p>      No sientas que todo est\u00e1 perdido si est\u00e1s en una relaci\u00f3n a largo plazo.  Para algunas parejas, el deseo sexual puede crecer con el tiempo si se enfocan en \u00e9l.  \u201cA menudo no es hasta los 30 que nos sentimos lo suficientemente c\u00f3modos para pedir lo que queremos en la cama\u201d, dijo Dillon.\n  <\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph inline-placeholder\" data-uri=\"archive.cms.cnn.com\/_components\/paragraph\/instances\/paragraph_F1931766-A9EF-3461-442E-546AE71869EA@published\" data-editable=\"text\" data-component-name=\"paragraph\">\n<p>      Pero me niego a estar de acuerdo con cualquiera que piense que las parejas casadas dejar\u00e1n de tener relaciones sexuales de todos modos, as\u00ed que \u00bfpor qu\u00e9 molestarse en priorizar la atracci\u00f3n sexual?\n  <\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph inline-placeholder\" data-uri=\"archive.cms.cnn.com\/_components\/paragraph\/instances\/paragraph_20D3B57F-4034-FB38-7F82-547EA66A602B@published\" data-editable=\"text\" data-component-name=\"paragraph\">\n<p>      \u201cMuchas parejas de 50 a\u00f1os pueden explorar y expandir su sexualidad gracias a la madurez y los nidos vac\u00edos.  Para las parejas de 60, 70 a\u00f1os y m\u00e1s que pueden expandir su definici\u00f3n de sexo m\u00e1s all\u00e1 del orgasmo y co-crear intimidad, el sexo puede continuar siendo vibrante y rico\u201d, agreg\u00f3 Dillon por correo electr\u00f3nico.\n  <\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph inline-placeholder\" data-uri=\"archive.cms.cnn.com\/_components\/paragraph\/instances\/paragraph_407CA9F4-25F6-B6E3-C465-546AE7192D26@published\" data-editable=\"text\" data-component-name=\"paragraph\">\n<p>      Y tenga en cuenta que su salud sexual es un bar\u00f3metro de su salud en general.  Entonces, si realmente est\u00e1 experimentando una ca\u00edda inexplicable en el inter\u00e9s sexual, considere hablar con su proveedor m\u00e9dico.  Tal vez tus niveles de testosterona realmente hayan bajado.\n  <\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph inline-placeholder\" data-uri=\"archive.cms.cnn.com\/_components\/paragraph\/instances\/paragraph_362CEE2C-31C1-6987-AB8E-547D9D07C2BA@published\" data-editable=\"text\" data-component-name=\"paragraph\">\n<p>      Cualquiera que sea la fuente de su falta de inter\u00e9s sexual, sea sincero con su pareja.  Resulta que la honestidad puede ser excitante (eventualmente).\n  <\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.cnn.com\/2022\/11\/08\/health\/sexual-attraction-importance-in-partner-wellness\/index.html\">Source link <\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Nota del editor: Ian Kerner es terapeuta matrimonial y familiar licenciada, escritora y colaboradora sobre el tema de las relaciones para CNN. Su libro m\u00e1s reciente es una gu\u00eda para parejas, \u201cAs\u00ed que cu\u00e9ntame sobre la \u00faltima vez que tuviste sexo\u201d. 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